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Lingerie Shopping Tips For Men That Wear Lingerie

Thursday, February 12th, 2015

You’ve probably seen articles about helping men buy lingerie, and some might be useful to you. The only thing about these tips is that they assume you’re buying the lingerie for someone else, and this can lead to problems, especially when you get flustered in a crowded store.

Lets look at some advice from experts and see how it applies to you.

From Luisa Loveday Founder Loveday London: “My best advice would be to spend time finding out about your partner and her style: girly, bondage, soft, hard, light, bright or dark, and then be sure to match her taste as best as you can.”

The fact that your partner likes the exact same style as you and wears the same size may be hard to explain.

From Fleur Turner CEO and founder Fleur of England: “Is she romantic? Does she like silk? Does she like lace? What colors does she wear?”

So far this advice sounds great, but can you remain cool calm and collected as you talk about silk and lace while holding a pretty babydoll nightie?

From Lucy Litwack Managing director Coco de Mer: “It is important the male customer feels at ease in the store.”

AHA! This is the key. You need to be brave, have confidence that you can comfortably browse all the pretty things, and buy whatever you like in your size. This is intimidating for most of you and many never make it into the store. Of course you can order online but you’ll miss a unique experience, not to mention how great it feels to conquer your fears.

I have an 11 minute recording that I made specifically for crossdressers that want to walk into any lingerie store as easily as walking into a McDonalds. Its called Lingerie Shopping Made Easy and its now free.

Put it on your iPod and listen on the way to the mall. It will be like I’m sitting right there giving you a pep talk.

Remember, the only thing you have to fear is fear itself. That, and maybe having to fight a large woman over the last pair of adorable boy shorts that are on sale.

Lingerie Shopping Made Easy Free MP3

Lingerie Shopping Made Easy Free MP3

Lingerie Shopping Made Easy Free MP3

Male CEO to get breast implants to test new bra

Friday, February 28th, 2014

The male CEO of lingerie brand Kewi is to get breast implants to test his invention, and help reach his one million dollar crowdfunding target.

Kewi Bra inventor Muyiwa Olumide believes that he should live and breathe his own product and has announced that he “will not let genetics stand between further groundbreaking discoveries”.

“As they say, a true entrepreneur should be a proud user of their own product. I set out to create the most comfortable bra for women with larger cup sizes, and that means putting myself in their shoes (bra) to get to the root of the problems,” he said.

“I will document my experiences of getting breast implants as a man and film the process. I will detail all of my discoveries and how they impact the design.”

Olumide will undergo breast augmentation surgery next month in order to experience exactly what future Kewi Bra wearers go through.

There is also a new, revolutionary pair of panties in the works, but to test them out properly will require a more serious procedure. As they say, the first cut is the deepest.

Male CEO to get breast implants to test new bra

Male CEO to get breast implants to test new bra

The Homeless Crossdresser

Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

What better time than now to think about those less fortunate than yourself? This post was originally published August 2, 2009.

The majority of crossdressers that I’ve met have thrown out some or all of their prized collection at least once. Whether its a matter of being afraid to keep it around the house, or deciding that enough is enough and wanting to start a new life, its a waste of money and usually some really pretty stuff! The thought of throwing out expensive lingerie and pairs of gorgeous high heels gives me chills, but I do understand.

The price of a few pairs of panties, or even a closet full of dresses is meaningless compared to the anxiety and stress it may cause. I just have a couple of suggestions that might help.

Consider a mini storage unit as an alternative to just tossing all your pretty clothes away. For $50-$60 a month you can find a small one that is roomy enough to stash all your things with plenty of space left over to store bulky items from your apartment, house, or garage. You’ll have complete privacy with your own lock and in most cases 24 hour access with a code. I’ve even seen new ones lately offering the first month free.

Now lets say you decide you’re finished for good. You are never going to wear women’s clothes again. That’s it-end of story. OK, that’s fine, but please don’t just throw everything out in a flurry of enthusiasm. Why not consider giving it to someone who can really use it.

Who you say? Why the homeless of course!

Studies show there are literally millions of homeless crossdressers throughout the country who can barely afford to stay drunk, much less buy beautiful lingerie.

Just imagine the happiness you could bring to one of these people by giving them a very slightly used Victoria’s Secret bra and panty set. Their big red nose would light up like Rudolph, and their whole attitude toward life and society may even change. I feel all warm and fuzzy just thinking about it!

Do the right thing-give generously.

The Homeless Crossdresser

The Homeless Crossdresser


Wednesday, December 11th, 2013

Equivalents is a series of photographs of clouds taken by Alfred Stieglitz from 1925 to 1934. They are generally recognized as the first photographs intended to free the subject matter from literal interpretation, and as such, are some of the first completely abstract photographic works of art.

This is my equivalent.

I shot this at a local park early this morning with my trusty Sony RX100. I call it My Equivalent. Catchy huh?

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My Equivalent

My Equivalent

Go Ask Teresa – Analogy

Thursday, October 17th, 2013

E: Do you ever feel like everything you’ve ever wanted was wrong? That you’re completely lost and have no idea where to go? Its as if you just woke up after decades, and forgot who you were. Nothing seems to really matter anymore and nothing makes any sense. You don’t feel bad but you don’t feel good. You wonder why you should even get out of bed and continue to put one foot in front of another. Do you have any idea what I’m trying to say?

Me: Sometimes I feel like I’m in a car driving down a very smooth road. Its a good, solid car, and its mine. Its familiar. I seem to know where I want to go and everything is alright. There is no traffic, and I’m not in a hurry. I don’t really have a destination in mind so I’m just driving. It doesn’t matter what time of day it is, or what season, or anything. My mind isn’t racing with other thoughts of what I want to do later, or tomorrow, or what I should have done the day, week, or year before. I’m just driving.

Other times its as if I’m in a large pickup truck. Not a new, state of the art model, but an older, slightly rusted and dented one, with old sugar packets and napkins on the floor. Its not my truck but I can drive it, so its not too bad at first. Little by little it gets worse. Traffic is crazy and the road is bumpy and I feel like I want the ride to be over. The engine starts making a funny noise and some smoke is coming from the engine. Just a little but it seems like a bad sign. I can feel the tension in my arms and body as I hold on and try to drive normally. The other drivers seem angry and in a hurry, as if it is somehow my fault. I’m getting more and more stressed out by the second and start to panic. Then the steering wheel seems to be coming loose and I really freak out. It will come right off in my hands if I don’t hold it in place with all my strength and I’ll be completely out of control. It takes everything I have just to stay focused and try to get through this, but I have no idea where I’m going and how long it will take to get there.

Then, there are times that I feel I’m on the perfect ride. Its a motorcycle. The day is warm and there is no noise at all. No one else seems to be around. The bike starts right up and purrs like a cat. A tiger. A large, strong, very confident tiger with no fear of anything. I am no longer a rider on a machine but simply riding. I can go anywhere I want at any speed without a care in the world.

I pull onto the highway and see its been completely redone. The road is perfect and there is only one line freshly painted down the middle. The road is mine. I smile. This is what my whole life has been about-getting to this point. I have the road, the bike, the world to myself and there is no way any of it could possibly be better. I just want to ride.

I find myself going very fast and look up to see I’m doing 100. Its as if I’m flying an inch or two off the ground and I want to go faster. 125-150-180…

How long will it last. How long will the ride be this flawless and complete? It doesn’t seem to matter at all.

Go Ask Teresa-Crossdressing advice, help and insight

Go Ask Teresa-Crossdressing advice, help and insight

Is Bugs Bunny A Sissy?

Monday, August 12th, 2013

A 20 year study by the National Sissy Association has just been completed to determine if Bugs Bunny is actually a sissy.

Thousands of man hours, gallons of lube, and full sized custom bunny suits were used in this groundbreaking research project.

The results are inconclusive, but most of the researchers have added fur to their list of fetishes.

Silly Wabbit, panties are for girls!

Silly Wabbit, panties are for girls!

The 8 Month Erection

Thursday, June 13th, 2013

This is why I read the N.Y. Post.

Daniel Metzgar of Wilmington Delaware is suing a doctor for allegedly botching a penile-implant operation in 2009 and leaving him with an erection that lasted eight months.

The suit says that Metzgar had trouble doing things such as getting the morning newspaper and riding a motorcycle.

This is something to consider the next time you get mad at another biker for not waving. Some people have it harder than others.

Ride Hard

Ride Hard

Don’t let this happen to you!

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

If you’re gonna wear her clothes when shes not home, check her schedule!


Monday, April 12th, 2010

Does this picture bring back any memories? Maybe you used to dress up in your Sisters or your Mothers clothes, and were filled with guilt about it, but just couldn’t stop. Maybe you couldn’t get the lingerie back in the drawer exactly where it was, and it drove you crazy with fear! Maybe you were petrified that a friend, neighbor, or family member would come home and catch you, but continued to dress up every day as you glanced out the windows like an escaped prisoner.

Its OK now. You aren’t that person anymore and things have changed. You have to realize that you’re not doing anything wrong, and if something as simple as dressing up gives you pleasure, then enjoy it.

Life is short-wear heels!

How Cold Is A Witch’s Tit?

Sunday, January 3rd, 2010

According to a recent study, a witches tit is approximately 30.09 degrees centigrade