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The Story of being a people helper using NLP and Self Help Procedures to solve Problems

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stevehallSteve Hall

Videographer, Editor, and NLP Consultant

I want to help as many people as I can, to have better lives, I am a helper of many, A volunteer in service to others helping the needy and the depressed to get over life’s problems. I feel notably rewarded by what I do daily, to help others along the way of life.

I’ve found NLP to be a great tool to stimulate the mind to think better thoughts and create dreams, that can be achieved to those who really want a change in their life … In my short Ebook, I talk about Divorce and family losses, that bring people to their knees and into prayer for those they love. In times like these with job losses, and people loosing homes,these are truly  hard times, we live in.

To make a difference in those lives makes me glow inside and but doesn’t pay the bills… I need your help here to keep my work going and to create a staff to help me continue what I do best…
I’m not asking for much but anything would help keep me going and help so many others who are lost and need a elping hand to get back on the right track of life…


Stephen Hall, Memories Unlimited Video, Owner and Video Editor 

PS: Just a short note of appreciation for my Tutor in NLP – Tom Hoobiar who died late last year. We lived similar lives, as he also had 52 or more Occuations, and loved NLP for how it helps people to live better lives…


Create the life of your dreams before it’s too late….

Read more abou it on my NLP Info Site:                NLP Eye Movement Reading  Helps to see how you think and tell alot about you to others.


Being Successful is a choice and takes time to develop by step by step learning NLP techniques to become the person you want to become must be learned as in education in school and from work we learn how to do many new things each year through training or minds about new possibilities we open our minds to better ways to do things and to help others learn from us too…

To learn more about this subject see  – My NLP Info Site – it tells about the creators of NLP and it’s bief history and a few videos to learn tecjniques and ideas to bring you a better life.


Who Runs Your Life !!!

Do you have full control over your life, or is someone else in control? A Boss, a Husband, a Wife, Parents, or even your Best Friend, maybe even your Peers, etc. We all carry lots of baggage, from our past into our future, but why do we do it, is it just a Habit, or a Trait we learned? It can be unlearned and cleared from your memory, if you really want to.

Why can’t we choose for ourselves, what we do, or how we do it, Try it, you may end up, changing your life for the better. I did when I quit trying to please others, and do the stuff, I love to do, I don’t even consider it work anymore, it’s just what I do: Videography and capturing Special Occasions, and helping to Capture. Those Special Moments in their life, it is fun to do. I even got yo tape “Jerry Rice’s 40th Birthday”, and also “MC Hammer’s 40th Birthday party”. See some of my work on my website:

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Wow did a show at cable the other night, about Men and Women and Parenting plus much more about the way men treat women, and how women react to them, learned alot and I will be adding more to this blog about it later. What a feature to explore about feelings, and judgment, and ownership, to the love them, hate them, plus more, Watch for it starting next month.

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Here’s Some NLP Concepts I’ve found helpful

NLP Concepts

By Stephen E. Hall

“What’s Real”, and “What’s Not Real”, in our lives, what we perceive to be ”Real”, may not be “Real”. But our reflex is often to believe it is “Real”, so we store it in our memory. Our sub-conscious and conscious minds sometimes disagree with each other on this. We perceive what we see, and react to it as such. As children we where in the research and development stage of life, we were told and apple is an apple a rock is a rock, and allot of don’t touch this stuff… All this stuff is anchored in our brain somewhere. We have a fractural response held in our memory of every event that ever happened to us. We can recall these incidents even if they happened years ago, but sometime cannot remember what we did yesterday. It was not important so we never stored it to memory. Plus we learn to tune out stuff that doesn’t involve us. Like music, background noises and people talking to others around us not directly to us.

We have a reactive mind as L Ron Hubbard puts it, we don’t change, unless we clear the memory out of that saved pattern. We all have capabilities of doing many different things at one time. Allot of which we were taught in school or by our parents or co- workers at a job. We sometimes can do things we’ve never attempted, and learn from the experience of doing it… We also have limitations stored in our memory, things we failed at or don’t want to do, for reasons like, we might get hurt, or die from it. We do this response without even thinking, it’s a programmed response. Also our sensory observations cause reactions these are used to prevent us from problems later or from getting hurt.

We set boundaries for ourselves, and those around us, to protect or limit how far to go, in some cases. We all have needs, wants and concepts about each other and how to react.

We want to work on our ideas and concepts, to make them a reality. We need to organize our thoughts to do this. We manifest the process, giving it our all, so to say.

We put all the drive we have, to accomplish our goal. We can even imagine it real before we start the project, we then create the concept. We are willing and able to complete it, all the way through. As it takes form, we nurture it, with our lives; we focus on the end product as being done. It’s called a light bulb or “Ah Ha” moment, as we think it through.

Now we also have transformation or state changes or reaction changes and that are possible, re- programming, as they call it now. Unlike mind control or brain washing of the past. We can anchor a new patterns, in place of old habits, and change how we react to the same stimulus that once bothered us, made us scared or afraid to continue the process. How we relate to these stimulus can make us a better more and more active life.

We can learn to eat better, and do more exercise, instead of sitting around just watching TV, letting our life go by us, day by day. We can also improve our minds but the choices of better foods. We can walk each day, more than the day before, and have more fun in our life, plus meet more people as we walk… Life can really improve if we take these steps into action… Just, Go For It!

Some NLP Terms Explained

Anchoring – to set in memory

Change – to modify results

Create – to make new

Dismiss – to eliminate

Establish – to create new thought pattern

Evaluate – to understand the problem

Hypnosis – to change process of thoughts

Manifest – to secure a process

Monitor – to check on progress

Pattern – to make normal a process

Re-Program – to change a thought pattern

Swish – to change automatic pattern

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Here’s a great story about the NLP Beginnings and studies by a friend of Richard Bandler!!!.

Read about this lession by friend of NLP Author “Richard Bandler” called in the beginning

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Helping People To Create Better Lives Using NLP and Coaching

I came up with a simple process to get over depression, anxiety, divorce, job loss, etc to help you get over some of these problems. I call it, “The Train Tracks at the Switch”. Your headed down the train track, there’s a switch ahead, one TRACK keeps you where you are, the other TRACK leads to your new life, with new friends, and new ideas, plus your doing the things you love to do, etc. It’s up to you to make the choice, which way the switch goes. Most people want to at least, want to try out the new track, and see what it comes up with, maybe a new life or business you always wanted to try out… (A swish pattern) as they call it in NLP. “Helping People to create better lives using NLP”

I had written several webpage articles on AOL, but as you know they pulled the plug on “Hometown sites” a few years back. Everything was lost, peoples history’s, blogs, livings, all gone. I treated it as a learning experience, (like your house had burnt to the ground, and you lost everything). It’s time to rebuild now, so you chose the right foundation for a strong life, the right content, to make it feel like home again, and make people feel welcome to come into it. To offer a learning experience, and a chance to help others in building better lives. A team to build it, and a story to tell, to keep them coming back for more.

I hope this helps more people to get started doing what you love, and become your own boss. It gives you a chance to grow and help others along the way. That feels good inside too. The ablity to show how to produce the fruits of your life, be it by word, or by your actions, it is always appreciated.. Just get started and it will flow, sort of like the Movie “The Secret” you put your mind to, it and let it flow out of you. You can make a difference, in your life and others lives too…
Where the movie sort of left off was: “Take Actions Toward Your Goals”

First let me start out introducing myself, Stephen E. Hall, Videographer, and NLP Guide, here to help you down the right path in your life. Not as a controller but a Coach, ready to serve you when needed. I look forward to helping people get over lifes problems, that seem to hold them back from their goals, to help you achieve, and to give you the insight along lifes path. My life is so different now that I am retired, and I am doing what I love, “Videography”, capturing life greatest moments for people to share. I do video productions at Mid Pen Media in Palo Alto, and have been recognised as #1 volunteer there for the last 9 years. Check it out at:
Mid Peninsula Media Center

I have videotaped some great events like Jerry Rice’s 40th Birthday in Menlo Park, and MC Hammer’s 40th Birthday in Tracy, but they were private and cannot be shown in public. I love what I do so it’s not like work because I enjoy it. Everyone should enjoy what they do and feel proud to accomplish their goals in life… It took me 52 careers to find one I really liked, I now understand why people feel comfortable to do their own work and have pride in it. Making a living, and having a job, are so different, one you love, the other you hate. I love to teach others to reach out and go for their goals in life, I really makes a difference in how you feel and treat others too…

Thanks, Stephen Hall


Here a great tool to learn more about NLP it’s called the NLP Toolbox

The NLP Toolbox

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A Conversation about Techniques for Mind Improvement

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I was asked the other day about the differences between EFT and NLP here is my simple answer is as follows.

Subject of interest is a picture of the brain and the areas where patterns come from.

First the definitions for those who don’t know them.

EFT is Emotional Freedom Technique
A remarkable healing system that reduces the stress that underlies much disease.   Used to free you from emotional problems and relax you in tense situations, also change your way of reacting to stressful interaction with others. Playing out situations with trainer to make changes in reaction to stimulus encounters, like job interviews, talking in public, etc. This is only a simple study between use of these techniques more information is available on the web under www.eftuniverse.com/


NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming
On the other hand NLP is a science of the mind, using modeling, reframing, redirecting thoughts, overcoming fears by conditioning the mind with altered patterns and new ways to replace old visions and meaning stored for years, as samples of what to do in situations encountered daily. How we perceive things and what we do with that information. You might have a phobia about height or sudden noises, they can be treated by thought pattern interruption, or change the pattern of thought altogether. There are several methods of treatment for each problem, The NLP practioner has studied several methods of treatment and can use different techniques for each problem they help you with. Also one can listen to tapes on their own and be able to make self improvements by listening and learning new way to react. General NLP info page at:


I myself have used both and found that different people react differently to each. One is not better than the other but they can co exist and mingle to help people get more out of life. I found that the guy I was working with, NLP was a better choice, “he was afraid of the dark”, I took him through his childhood, and found the key was when a parent turned off the light and left him alone at home. He got scared and left his room to find the whole house was dark and no one answered his call for help. I took him to a dark closet with a fashlight in hand. I said to get in the closet and turn off the light, then turn it back on. I would be there for him if he needed help. He discovered that the dark was not that bad if he was in control of the light… Like magic he has improved from that time and no longer sleeps with a light on… Just a simple technique but it helps people to get over small problems like that of darkness or scared of heights…He’s also not afraid of elevators anymore and some tall buildings he’s been in lately. He enjoys life alot more, and able to cope with changes better.

More interesting information about your brain and how it works see below the diagram expain the processes:

Reocuring mind patterns control you!!!

Frequencies that affect the brain

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The Riding The Traffic Roller Coaster

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Getting traffic to your site, can be easy, but getting interested visitors who want to buy your product or service is another thing altogether. I have several comments on my blog here about why I don’t charge for my authoring here, well here goes my story. I have wanted to help others who struggle in life, to seek better tools and mindsets to improve how they live their lives… Where not all the same we have several differences in our ways of thinking. When I went through my divorces, I felt pain and hurt inside. One person changed all that but helping me in my desperation, he taught me about NLP and the power of the mind to learn new ways.

I had several people who wanted me to pay for their services to learn NLP, but all were too expensive at that time, like you might be right now… So I decided to work for free to volunteer my time in helping other to learn these lessions. Now some would say that’s wrong, to give it away, why not charge for it… ok maybe I should, but I also find that others lend me a hand, when it’s most needed, and I get paid, in other ways, like happiness, hugs, smiles, great comments, etc. Plus traffic to this site, where you can read about my life and helping others to learn lifes lessions for free. I do have a few ads on my site and once in a while get traffic from here to other sites that pay me.

People like to find free information that adds to their knowledge of the world around them, I try to give them a glimps of ideas they can use to improve how the feel about others and how the can learn to work for themselves and make good money too… I started my own business out of frustration of loosing jobs and having to find a replacement job to replace it to make ends meet. My choice changed my life direction and I had to learn stuff like accounting, sales, inventory management, view points of others, and running my business, when I didn’t feel like it… That’s life in the fast lane, you just do it or else, no one else can do it for you…

Getting back to traffic on the web, you can join click sites or leads sites to get your traffic or use pay-per-click, be careful it can cost you if you spend too much per click.
You can also write blogs and draw interested people to your sites like this one. It’s your choice, make a wise decision and you get paid well for your work…

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Want some business marketing help, check out “Second Income Coach”, a friend showed me how easy it is to use, and get trained to coach others to do the same, here is the site:
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Plus if you haven’t yet seen my other blog page here it is:
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Same great work with a slightly different angle on it.

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What does this mean?

How do you make a living?

If you change the way you think about money, money can be your friend, So many people know how to rip people off on the web, so we are careful not to be taken advantage of here. But then again we want our share of the wealth. Knowing what to invest in has become difficult, with people losing homes to foreclosure. Education is one way to invest in yourself, and get a better job in the future, but for now, we need to make a living while we go to college and learn. Self study can help us learn about ourselves and those around us. I started this blog to help people learn about NLP and lifes changing solutions.

The next URL is a excerpt from a talk on NLP the beginnings.

NLP The Beginnings

Now you can learn more here about NLP and its secrets to success
NLP Secrets

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Learning to love oneself is only the beginning, to love others is giving your love away, without expectation of return. The only true love is love that’s never held back…

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